Struggling to cope with change? We’ve all experienced change of some kind at some point in our lives that sparks or creates a negative mindset. Whether it’s changing jobs, losing a loved one, getting married, buying a house, or moving to another country, change is an inevitable part of life.
But embracing change isn’t always easy. Especially if it means stepping into the unknown or saying goodbye to what we know and love for the sake of pastures new.
How Change Can Create A Negative Mindset
When change happens unexpectedly or we find the concept of change scary, it’s natural to resist the changes coming our way and to develop a negative mindset towards the concept of change.
In a bid to avoid stepping out of our comfort zone, we seek out reasons why change is bad so that we can stay where it feels safe and not do the things we know we need to do. Which is all very well, but what if the change has to happen whether we like the idea or not?
How do we turn those negative thoughts on their head and develop a more positive mindset so that we can embrace the changes we need to make?
In fact, you can find inspiration for second thoughts about moving based upon Lori’s own personal journey here.
Below you’ll find ten inspirational quotes about change that’ll not only help you to break down your resistance towards change but encourage you that it’s not only possible but that change can actually be a good thing too.
10 Embracing Change Quotes To Inspire You
Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future. – John F. Kennedy
All things are difficult before they are easy. – Thomas Fuller
Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts. – Arnold Bennett
A ship in harbour is safe, but that’s not why ships are built.- John A. Shedd
Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end. – Robin S. Sharma
There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind. – C. S. Lewis
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. – Marilyn Monroe
If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living. – Gail Sheehy
The power to change your life lies in the simplest of steps. – Steve Maraboli
Moving doesn’t change who you are. It only changes the view outside your window. – Rachel Hollis
A Simple Way To Start Embracing Change
Put these inspirational quotes about change on your wall, write them in your journal, or add them to your phone. Then, the next time you’re struggling to cope with the idea of change or find yourself battling with that negative mindset, use them to help you focus on all the positive reasons why your life would be better if you embraced that change.
Instead of dwelling on the past or wanting to stay where you are right now, allow yourself to be excited about the possibilities, opportunities, experiences, lessons, and people the future has in store for you.
Final Thoughts On Embracing Change To Improve A Negative Mindset
The first step, which you’ve already taken, is to acknowledge how you’re coping with change. Choose a quote that resonates with you. Put that quote (or all of them) somewhere you’ll see every day throughout the day to reinforce how the change can be positive rather than negative.
Before you know it, you’ll wonder why you resisted in the first place. And if it takes a while, it’s ok. Know that whilst change might not always be easy, like Robin Sharma says, it can be “gorgeous at the end”.
Author Bio: Sarah Dew is a transformation coach, goal success coach, author, and the founder of A Simple and Contented Life. Sarah helps busy women all over the world to become their BEST selves and live their BEST lives. When she’s not helping her clients to make a change for the better, you’ll either find her in her favourite Starbucks curled up in a chair, book in one hand, hazelnut latte in the other, or attempting to walk her (somewhat lazy!) Frenchie pup Arthur.
For more tips on becoming your best self, you can connect with Sarah on Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest.
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8 comments
Great quotes! Love this list, and I definitely need to keep these at hand.
Thanks Andrea!
Hello Lori,
I like your collection of quotes for this mindset. Change is inevitable but since we are habitual, then it isn’t always easy to make those transitions. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you. Definitely not always easy so a little motivation from a quote can be just what we need! x
The discomforting feeling of change is quite persistent when you’re an expat. These quotes are a great way to reframe the discomfort into something positive! Thank you!
Hi, Dori. So true. I couldn’t agree with you more! Thank you x
I am a huge fan of quotes and use quotes and affirmations as part of my daily mindset routine, that I perform to keep myself in a growth and a positive mindset, one of my favorites is actually on your list – Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end. – Robin S. Sharma – I use it to motivate myself when I am tempted to stay in my comfort zone:)
Thanks for sharing Madi! That’s definitely a favorite of mine, too! x